一年一度的香港區聯校家長教師會培育聚會於2012211日假慈幼學校舉行。本年題目是預防教育法對青少年溝通的貢獻。參加者藉此分享如何與青少年溝通,及他們的愛和關心是否成功地讓青少年感受到。 

中華會省會長林仲偉神父強調,青少年是最脆弱亦最有潛質的。「預防教育法」是一種生活態度。首先,預防一切造成青少年永久傷害的陷阱。限制是需要的及讓他們知道天主隨時看著我們。他們有很多精力,我們需要以不同的活動(旅行、話劇、音樂)去幫助他們發揮。這是「預防教育法」非常重要的地方。所以,家庭活動如郊遊、行山、享用下午茶、、、,都是溝通、建立關係和陪伴等非常重要的渠道。

陪伴有助建立關係。以禮物去獎勵孩子是無效的方法,最有效的是陪伴他們一起外出或食飯慶祝。鮑思高神父很少說話但他時常陪伴青少年。所以,陪伴比說話更有效建立關係。要讓青少年知道我們愛他們,當他們感受到愛及關心時,他們自會回應。 

最後,宗教使青少年更立體,就是向上與天主的關係。除了現世,還有永生及死亡。讓青少年認識這個人生重要的課題是我們的責任。此外,宗教能使教育更完整。 

11 February 2012 – Annual Joint Parent and Teacher Association Gathering was held in Salesian School on 11 February 2012. The theme was the Prevention System’s contribution towards communication with youth. All the participants shared on how they communicated with youth and whether their care and love were successfully conveyed. 

Fr. Simon Lam, Provincial of China Province highlighted that youth is most vulnerable but they possess the greatest potentials. The Prevention System is also a way of living. Firstly, it aims to prevent youth from falling into those traps that will hurt them permanently. Temperance is needed and they need to know God is watching us all the time. They have a lot of energy but we need to help them to utilize this energy by organizing various activities like picnic, drama and music performance, etc. This is a very important element of Prevention System. Therefore, family gatherings like outing, hiking and tea-party are also important methods to develop communication, relationship and companionship.  

Secondly, companionship develops relationship. It is not appropriate just to reward the children with gifts. A more effective way is to celebrate with them by dining together or some other joint activities. Don Bosco did not talk much but he accompanied youth. Therefore, talking is not as effective as companionship in developing relationship. We have to tell them that we love them. When they feel love and care, they will respond to our love and care spontaneously. 

Finally, religion can help our youth to be more “three-dimensional” (including vertical relationship with God). Apart from the present life, there is the issue of eternal life and death. It is our responsibility to let them know these important topics of life. Moreover, religion can make education more complete.


慈幼會中華會省